What emotions do this photograph bring to your mind?
To me, it represents a deep and long sought after longing.
My father, and his father before him, and perhaps a significant percentage of the fathers in that era, seemed incapable of expressing their love to their sons.
If you have been a reader of this blog for any period of time, you will have learned that a significant part of my drive, in becoming a successful businessman, was looking for the attention and the approval of my father. I wanted my father's blessing. I wanted to hear, "Well done, son!"
My father is gone now. I hold no ill will towards him. In fact, I am deeply saddened that his same desire was never found. I distinctly remember my grandfather, visiting a new home that my wife and I had purchased about 15 years ago, saying right in front of my father, "Well...at least someone in this family had made something of themselves".
That was a complement to me, but I am sure that my father, perhaps 58 years old or so at the time, was stricken to the heart with that comment from his father. My father was never able to share his thoughts and desires with me. Unfortunately, I wasn't mature enough to understand. I was busy being focused on my own drives, desires and pains.
I say all this because I believe God when he said that he made man in his image. I believe that God has placed, in the hearts of sons, a longing for the blessings of their fathers.
As a 51 year old man, I now understand that my father and his father before him, never found this blessing. With God's help, I intend to make certain that my sons do not live without this precious gift.
So now, with my father gone, I intend to learn what it means to be a child of God. What would God have me know about him as my Father. What does it mean to be adopted into the Family of God? What privileges does having a King as my Father bring? How should I act as a King's son? How do I spend time with my Heavenly Father, and let him teach me? How can the above photograph represent God, my heavenly Father, and me?
Join me as I seek answers to these questions in Dr. Sinclair B. Ferguson's, Children of the Living God
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